Questions, answered before you ask for an audience.

Yes. The Introduction Session is specifically suitable for beginners, limited experience and people wanting a careful restart after a negative experience.

Confidentiality and discretion are central to the practice. An NDA can be requested before a session.

Adults aged 18 or over. Lux welcomes people of any gender. Health, mobility or accessibility considerations should be mentioned during intake.

In Lux’s private studio in Capelle aan den IJssel, the Netherlands. Private parking is available and public transport is nearby.

Lady, Milady, Lady Lux or Mistress.

Usually elegant black dresses, skirts, tailored separates, leather ensembles, suits or theme-specific clothing. She does not present herself in stereotypical latex, lingerie or “slutty Domme” outfits for sessions.

The current practice uses green for continue, orange for caution/reduce intensity and red for stop. Communication before and during the session remains essential.

No. There are no sexual services or sexual acts. Intimate areas remain covered and inappropriate touching is not part of the session.

No. Trying to buy around a stated boundary is likely to result in the application being declined.

Published boundaries include CBT, sexual acts, pegging/anal play, forced bi, sounding, facesitting, urine/feces play, needles or medical play, race play, wrestling, drug/poppers use and other requests Lux chooses not to accept.

Yes, in some formats, but it is optional. You can explicitly choose not to have photography or video.

Equipment and the studio are cleaned between use, and transformation clothing/wigs are cleaned after sessions. Aftercare needs should be discussed in advance.

Email a polite introduction including relevant experience, interests, limits, health considerations and why you want to meet Lady Lux. Not every application is accepted.