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Journal

Essays from Lux on BDSM, psychology, history, community dynamics and her creative work.

Psychology

Navigating Narcissism: Protecting Yourself in the Kink Community

I aim to inform and caution others, empowering them to safeguard themselves and maintain the community as a safe environment for exploring kink. Individuals with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) are often attracted to…

Community

The Phenomenon of Fake Profiles: The Danger and How to Stay Encouraged

Another English rewrite of my MassaD magazine collumn. MassaD nr 326 In this column, we will discuss an important topic: fake Dommes and fake Subs. Encounters with these individuals can be discouraging, but there are also real…

History

BDSM throughout history

As you may know, in addition to being a pro domme, therapist and coach, I am also a huge history buff. I have embarked on a journey to uncover the roots of BDSM and take you through history and its pioneers. Ancient Mesopotamia ,…

Psychology

Redefining Perceptions: The Positive Impact of BDSM on Mental Health

Recently, I’ve been increasing my writing contributions both here and on my website. In addition to my work as a professional Dominatrix, I also work as a therapist and coach. Over the last few years, I’ve delved into topics…

Dynamics

From Bond to Boundaries: Understanding Submissive Behavior in BDSM

In the domain of BDSM, submissive individuals, often referred to as “subs”, span a wide spectrum of behaviors. From deeply bonded relationships to unhealthy obsessions, it’s crucial to recognize and understand these variations.…

History

Theresa Berkley: Unveiling the Life and Legacy of a 19th Century Dominatrix Pioneer

During my exploration of the historical aspects of BDSM, I stumbled upon an extraordinarily captivating woman. She was a professional dominatrix, known by the name of Theresa Berkley. Theresa Berkley, a bold pioneer and…

Community

Unmasking the Danger: The Psychology Behind Pretentious Dominants

My work as a professional dominatrix and therapist allows me to delve into the depths of human psychology, exploring both its light and shadow sides. While I have discussed the transformative power of a responsible Pro Domme in…

Psychology

BDSM and Psychology

Lux as a multi-faceted therapist. Besides being a Pro Domme I also work as a therapist, my practice spans across a broad array experience. I specialize in trauma therapy and also religious trauma therapy (especially for ex…

Press

The Lady Lux as columnist and cover model

Lady Lux is not only a celebrated designer whose work has been featured in Vogue , on the MTV Awards red carpet, and in numerous television programs, but she has also graced the covers of at least five magazines herself. Beyond…

Creative work

The Lady Lux as a Fashion Week designer

Lady Lux is not only a multifaceted coach and therapist but also an accomplished fashion designer, renowned for her exceptional work in jewelry, accessories, and exclusive fashion. Her portfolio spans high profile projects,…